Hi again avid followers, newcomers, future exes and my future husband,
"What do you look for in a man?"
This seems to be one of the first thing I am always asked when going through the brutal task of online dating site question and answers.
My answer? Do you want the cookie cutter version or what I really want to say... I will give you both.
Cookie cutter
Someguy123: What do you look for in a man?
Desperately_looking (aka ME): I like an intelligent guy. Someone who can teach me things but also likes to learn from me. A nice guy (cough cough) who likes adventure. I like tall, athletic guys with a nice smile and preferably older than I am. But, looks don't matter all that much as long as he makes me laugh.
What I really want to say
Dreamguy16: Hey, what do you look for in a man?
Yourfuturewifey: A strong man. A man who loves his job no matter what that job is... I really want someone who will challenge my intelligence and I can do the same for him. Someone tall... blue eyes and dark hair are a plus! I need someone with a strong sex drive and who wants to experiment and enjoy every inch of our bodies (Yes, I am aware that sounds slutty). A man to enjoy watching sports with, eating terrible food and drinking vodka, but will also work out with me. I want a good man... a man that can look at me in the crazy hours of the morning and tell me I am beautiful. Someone that I can fight with, who can hold his own in an argument and we'd still find our way back into each-others arms.
What I really want to say is that I already have that guy... had that guy and he can't be what I need him to be.
Faithful. Selfless. Committed.
Sometimes, what you want and what you need have to be two completely different things.
XOXO
**ME**
Desperately_looking (aka ME): I like an intelligent guy. Someone who can teach me things but also likes to learn from me. A nice guy (cough cough) who likes adventure. I like tall, athletic guys with a nice smile and preferably older than I am. But, looks don't matter all that much as long as he makes me laugh.
What I really want to say
Dreamguy16: Hey, what do you look for in a man?
Yourfuturewifey: A strong man. A man who loves his job no matter what that job is... I really want someone who will challenge my intelligence and I can do the same for him. Someone tall... blue eyes and dark hair are a plus! I need someone with a strong sex drive and who wants to experiment and enjoy every inch of our bodies (Yes, I am aware that sounds slutty). A man to enjoy watching sports with, eating terrible food and drinking vodka, but will also work out with me. I want a good man... a man that can look at me in the crazy hours of the morning and tell me I am beautiful. Someone that I can fight with, who can hold his own in an argument and we'd still find our way back into each-others arms.
What I really want to say is that I already have that guy... had that guy and he can't be what I need him to be.
Faithful. Selfless. Committed.
Sometimes, what you want and what you need have to be two completely different things.
XOXO
**ME**
