Tuesday, May 26, 2009

I was on Hiatus... it was worth it

Hi again avid followers, newcomers, future exes and my future husband,

My friends I have returned and still have to get you all up to date. I would like to welcome all my new followers from metropolisoflove.com and my fellow tweethearts :)

Let's see... wow we have A LOT to catch up on.

Yes, I did take it one date at a time. The week after I went to see the semi pro I went on a date with a guy I will call 'the divorced' guy... except it wasn't until I was actually on the date did I find out he was divorced. Interesting.

I'll set the stage for his description. Divorced marine who recently became a father and is fighting for the rights to spend more time with his child... I'm an outreach program. I seriously find the most messed up men and hope I will be able to change their world.

There was a pretty bad snow and ice storm the night of our date... of course the weather here never can cooperate! Seriously?! Mother nature you should really be reading this, taking notes, and filling in my future husband! We meet up for coffee at a local diner. The coffee was delicious and the conversation... well I didn't have to pull teeth. I love coffee for first dates. Not a lot of distractions and your can't blame your actions on the coffee. We talked about our jobs, sports, family, likes, and of course the whole 'why are you even on a dating site' question(s). It went from an hour to almost three... like two old friends who had to catch up after years of not seeing each other.

Then the divorced guy says...
"so...you know how I said if it went well I'd ask you something"

yesssss

"would you like to come back to my house...we can watch a movie and get to know each other better"

(say yes say yes say yessss... is what my brain said) You're really great divorced guy but with the weather I should really get home.

awkward silence
After a few more minutes of the divorced guy trying to come up with the perfect plan he gave in and agreed another time. Sooner than later...

A sheet of ice covered the windshields of our cars and snow fell from the sky. He kissed me outside of the car... it was a deep, hot kiss the type when the kiss stops your face if still in that kiss pose and your cheeks are flush. Of course, I kiss back for good luck and get into my car. My windshield was covered with ice so I turned up the heat and music and waited for it to melt...there was a knock on my window and there was the divorced guy I unlocked my car door and let him in. Why not? what is a better way to melt ice then a hot make-out session in my car?!

The ice melted and we cooled off. The divorced guy wiped my windows before getting into his own car and disappearing into the night.

Another date may be in the works but for now I have to see what else is out there. I will not settle.

Xoxo

**ME**


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